Increadible video...

Hi Every one,

This video is really incredible. You should once watch it. And it would make you feel deep peace inside your self.

This is and Vedic Mantra and we usually use it as prayer.

It is "Asatoma sadgamayam, Tamso ma jyortiy gamayam, Mrutyur ma amritamgamayam."

There is meaning given in video itself and video is worth watching.

Confusion...

Hi every one...

It's 6 in the morning and I have no idea what to do?? So with my confuse state of mind I thought to write something. As this idea came from confusion I thought to write something on confusion itself. Before 5 minutes I was totally confused about what to do?? Either to go for walk or to do some exercise or start painting or music or just simply start on my mission to grab job?? Finally, I reached to conclusion and decided to write.

Normally confusion is very common feeling which whole world shares and feels like yes I feel same in this situation. We have confusion in choosing what to wear today? What to eat? either to choose this or that? May be some people are less confused and some are more. But confusion follows every one.

When confusion is low it does not matter. Have you ever thought that from where this confusion comes? Root of confusion is experience. When you have previous experience or you know about some else's experience, that is the time from when confusion starts following you. Your bad experience ask you not to do certain things, while some one's good experience motivate you to try it again and vice versa.

Each and every person has different circumstances and different thoughts. Never compare your situation with others even if it seems like same. To avoid confusion don't compare two things. Untill you won't try you will never know, was it good decision or disaster? Disasters are part of life. Disaster teach you something. May be they are part of your own "KARMA." Never regret your self that you are at loss because you left right way and started walking on wrong way just because you were confused?

Just follow your heart and do what you want. Don't hurt yourself just because you are confused.

Give try to every new breeze which wants to touch you. D't close your doors before it comes to you. May be tomorrow you d't find it again and regret your self for missing something good. Life is full of disasters but find your happiness between it. And also dare to come out of disasters which you have created in confused state of mind.

Everything is easy to tell... Only following it is the hard part, still I will try to follow what I have written....

one funny incident...

Hi every one,

Today I wanted to share one funny incident, which was funny for us but I d't think it would be funny for the person it happened with.

It was 9.00 pm and I was waiting for bus with my friend. She was going to Junagadh from Baroda. Finally, bus came but I was not going anywhere, I was there to drop my friend. When we joined in queue and just before us one man was standing and he was looking to every one. Also at our group as well, we thought it would not be normal when group of 4 or 5 girls standing and a boy won't look at them. As always I have smiling face, I was getting on in bus with huge smile on my face and that guy was coming out from bus. May be he thought, I was smiling at him. but I passed from him like I didn't noticed him. Than we saw him struggling with his self, may be he was wondering that why we haven't spoke to him.

After a moment one of our friend arrived, " he was smiling and asked us did you see him????"

We asked, "Whom??"

That man!! yaar... That famous guy!!! you girls d't know him???

We said, "Please clear it mate, we have no idea about whom you are talking??"

Than he pointed to the man, whom we ignored and told us that he is guy from laughter challenge and he is travelling on this bus. Than we realise, why he was smiling at us? may be he thought at least we have recognised him. and why he was wondering?

We murmured, that it would be really annoying for him that, no one knows him. And than went to him and took his autograph and some photos with him to make him feel good.

I will not tell his name because it's not that, I d't want to tell his name but it's like I forget his name. I remembered this incident because, today I was watching laughter challenge.

Need of free sky....

Hi Every one....

You know when you try something new, you feel very exited about it and would like to do that thing again and again, and that is the reason why this is my second post on same day.

I was thinking that, I am very liberal, open minded, practical, calm and can accept negative points easily. But with the stream of time I realized that, it wasn't like that. I found my self stubburne, emotional, aggressive and always arguing for proving my thoughts right.

Now you will think, how I found this things??? When I was in India, I had several strong beliefs and I used to believe that my arguments and views are true because whole society follows that so called norms and a person can be wrong but society can not be wrong. I believed what famous magazines, newspapers, writers or our so called leaders told just because their words are aggressive or understandable. They made me feel like, "Yes!!! this are the things what we need." But was that true??? Let's find out with some of my beliefs and related experiences.

My FIRST belief....

I strongly believed that India needs good politicians, good government employees and good police for development. Once India will find good politicians all the problems would be solved, as politicians are the people who runs our country. As once country will go in safe hands and all the problems would be solved. And I started following B.J.P (one of the political party in India) because my dad was follower, my whole family was follower and people whom I mostly know and have influence on me followed it. And the strongest thing that I am Hindu by religion and this party is created to protect rights of Hindus and it was tradition in Gujarat, if you are feeling proud to call your self Hindu than B.J.P is the right choice.

My SECOND belief....

My culture is the best culture in this world, and I am very proud of being Indian and more than that for being Hindu and Indian both to-gather. I belong to oldest culture on this earth and so my culture's traditions are right and what my elders believes and follows I should do same. I strongly believed that, "alcohol is the worst thing in this earth and whole world would be destroyed by it" just because my elders gave me examples of those people whose families were suffering poverty because of man's drinking habit.

And, My THIRD belief....

One shouldn't ever leave his/her own country. Person has to stay with their parents and joint family tradition is the right life style. Women can work but growing up children and giving them right direction is solely mother's responsibility. Men helping her wife in kitchen or in daily work is not a real man, in other words he is "Joru ka Gulam."

I was happily living with my all these beliefs and admiring my self as MODERN THINKER.

I remember may be it was 2002, when my dad came back from his 3rd or 4th trip of UK, he was telling every one that we are walking 100 years back from these developed countries and I was not able to digest that thought. I am the best and all the best things belongs to my country. "Look at the growth rate of our country, it's 7% this year and data says that it is highest growth rate ever seen." But exactly what he wanted to tell was not about growth rate. My mum was crazy about living in UK after her trip. She wanted all of us to settle over there, but no one of us was ready for that all had different reasons. It was difficult for me to find out that, what exactly attract her in UK. She is rich house wife here, has servants to work for her and purse full of credit and debit cards for shopping. What else one should need more than that??? Definitely she won't find any maid in UK and would be tired of working and will not have time for shopping any way. She know all these things, still she was more than happy to live there.

Now it's 2010. I came Melbourne in 2008. I had fight with my parents to come here. In Feb'2008 for the first time I realize the value of abroad due to my personal circumstances. I was dying to leave India. I realized what India is missing. And that was freedom of thinking, freedom of acting, freedom of decision making and freedom of not following society's norms. Because it was the time when I decided to take divorce. Suddenly Princes of family became burden. I was surrounded by sympathy and sorrow. Every single person, who know me was giving me sympathy. I felt my divorce is the talk of town. Still after 2 years when I talk to EXPERIENCED persons of society, I can hear words "Forget it dear what ever happened, it was god's wish and your karma." Why they give me that much sympathy??? Do I really need it??? I am educated, I am confident and I can find work for my self and can be happy. I have all reasons to be happy and why should't I??? But still society will never forget that once I was married, even if I forget. According to them I have to stay sad, because I am divorced.

Now it's turn of alcohol, here in Melbourne people drink alcohol regularly, whole family does not suffer from one person's any habit. Because wife earns for her self and her money belongs to her not to her in laws. Lost of husband means loss of emotions, not a economic loss. Women are practical enough for not fulfilling their husband's unethical demands. and why should they??? Now I understood that it is not alcohol, that destroys family. It is our society so called norms. First wife is dependent on husband and husband is the final authority of family, no one can stop him. If wife is working than her money belongs to husband and there is nothing bad in it. Husband has right to beat wife, as she is his responsibility and authority. And wife tolerates all this things because society will not accept divorced woman. She definitely need one man to protect her and her children from this society's GENTLEMEN. She finds better to tolerate one man than whole society. I d't understand is it alcohol responsible for family's condition or society???

How can my country be great, when it is against of happiness. How I can call my culture great, when it does not consider women as human....

Politicians are not responsible for corruption, people offering bribe are responsible. Sleeping and selfish society norms are responsible. Our orthodox thinking is responsible.... Our habit of accepting authority is responsible... Our rigidity is responsible... Our habit of protesting each and every thing is responsible... We can't celebtare valentine's day just because it encourages youth to fall in love... Can you stop heart to beat??? Than how would you stop love??? Why d't we understand need of freedom??? When we will leave our Hippocratic life style???

We need free sky... Where we can fly fearlessly....

One sunny day of my life!!!!!

Hi every one!!!

Probably you all will think that what I mean by sunny day??? All the days are sunny in India, but here in Melbourne sunny day is day when we feel fresh, when we plan a trip or even decide whether to wash clothes??? That is sunny day for us or for me.

As it is my first post, and first try to write something I thought to write something funny something which I really enjoyed or something I would like to live again and again....

But when I thought about single day of my life which I enjoyed throughout. I wasn't able to recall anything particular. I thought "I missed my life? I didn't enjoyed at all? Am I so bored person? Not a single memory? Not a single whole day? How could it be?"

Than I thought may be I d't have one whole sunny day in my life, as life is full of ups and downs all days are also same. May be you are happy in the morning but evening takes smile away from your face, May be in whole day of sorrow there you smile for while or even on a most happiest day of your life you face few dull moments. Than I thought, that may be I have my sunny day in parts. It was all sunny days when I was in my high school, never studying always fighting, In university bunking classes and watching movie, Than suddenly having boy friend and roaming around with him, Dancing with my all little brothers and family, all the things were making me feel sunny. But with time all goes away.... Now there is no family, no old friends no school days or college days even not old boy friend... so what? Am I not feeling happy now?

Of course not, I am happy. I am at Melbourne surrounded by most beautiful beaches, enjoying my freedom, no burden of responsibilities, no one to ask me why, when and how? Still I am thinking does it makes me happy??? Of course yes, but they are not the only thing which can make you happy. Because if that would be right, do you think people living in interior part of Africa and struggling for food can smile??? Lady forcefully hiding her face under long ghoonghat can smile??? A little child who got polio and can't run like other children would ever laugh??? You will say "No, they can't be happy, they can't laugh or smile in those situation, it's really tough to be happy, how one can be happy???

But that is not true, to make you smile there is just need of willingness to be happy, A smiling face of kid can make you happy, fresh flower on plant can make you smile, a bright sunny day can make you smile, even a person passing by you can make you smile, a most pathetic and bored tv commercial can make you smile. But if you have decided that you will not smile than, you can not smile even at Lass Vegas or even on your wedding or even if you win $5 million lottery....

So, find a reason to smile... your smile can make many more faces smile... Don't find sunny day of your life or don't wait for sunny day of your life.. just make every day a sunny day for your life... and see the difference in your life...