We and Our Soul!!

"The mind is everything. What you think , you become."

Hello Friends,

Today's post is one story, which I got as an e-mail from one friend. I really like the story so posting it to share with you.

HORROR at Lonavala:
True Story Chilling Real story…!!!

This happened about a month ago near Lonavala. A guy was driving from Bombay to Pune and decided not to take the new expressway as he wanted to see the scenery along the old road. The inevitable happens and when he reached the mountains his car breaks down - he's stranded miles from nowhere. Having no choice he started walking on the side of the road, hoping to get a lift to the nearest town. It was dark and rainy. And pretty soon he got wet and Shivering. The night rolled on and no car passed by. Suddenly he saw a car coming towards him. It slowed and then stops next to him - without thinking the guy opened the door and jumps in. Seated in the back, he leaned forward to thank the person who had saved him. He realizes there is nobody behind the wheel!!!Even though there's no one in the front seat and no sound of any engine, the car starts moving slowly. The guy looks at the road ahead and sees a curve coming. Scared almost to death he starts to pray, begging the Lord for his life. He hasn't come out of shock, when just before he hits the curve, a hand appears through the window and moves the wheel! The car makes the curve safely and continues on the road to the next bend. The guy, now paralyzed in terror, watches how the hand appears every time they are before a curve and moves the steering wheel just enough to get the car around each bend. Finally, the guy sees lights ahead. Gathering his courage he wrenches open the door of the silent, slowly moving car, scrambles out and runs as hard as he can towards the lights. It's a small town. He stumbles into a restaurant, and asks for a drink, and breaks down. Then he starts talking about the horrible experience he's just been through. There is dead silence in the restaurant when he stops talking ....and that's when Santa and Banta walk in. Santa points and says 'Look Banta - that's the idiot who got into our car when we were pushing it ...

"The mind is everything. What you think , you become."

EXPERIENCES ARE ETERNAL

I always wonder about things going on with me. People around me describe me as very practical, active and smart. I always find some surprises. Things and people whim I trust and love goes suddenly away and unwanted things attract me. I wonder how this works???

If life is like book than, no book would have suspense’s like, what my book have? Is it possible to make same mistakes again and again? Or is that the book written by god? and you has to perform it.

When you are honest, you feel that rest of the world is also honest. But my experience tells me that, an HOMEST is just a word described in dictionary. There is no value of honesty in this artificial world. When you speak truth, you believe that person next to you also practices same. That is the point where you are wrong.

People here in India have lots of arguments to prove their Hippocratic world better than others. But they never see inside them, do they ever try to understand that how much they abuse other person by their behavior and words.

India would never be the place for me to live my life peacefully. Everywhere I found is just slum. Slum in mind, slum in heart, slum in lifestyle and slum in showing respect towards other person.

I made a mistake, I got married. Than I made huge mistake, I got remarried. It’s 7^th day of my marriage and I realized it today. Don’t have single friend to share this. So, sharing it with myself.

Lots of surprises to come, lots of experiences to gain. Truly every decision of your life makes you stronger and harder with some special experiences. Either good or bad.

Getting ready for another experiences. Asking help from god to pass this time with grace.

Love and Light,

Dimple

Everything is FAKE, than what is TRUTH???

At any stage of life we all had got feeling, that world is fake. No relation is true, whatever we are doing is not worth, and we are just like puppets. Everything including me is fake. But have tried to get answer, if world is fake than what is the truth???

We believe that this is materialistic world and we are playing our dedicated roles. Than other stream of meditators will tell that there is nothing like god, what you believe as god is your inner self. You have to find your own self. Again controversy is created, some religious gurus will ask you to believe that our inner self is just a fraction of consciousness, which we recognize as a god. So what is inside is just a dot and what is outside is more than this universe.

I believe in all concepts but still don’t know what truth is??? Being yogi or sage or meditator guru is neither everyone’s cup of tea, nor do I believe that all have same urge of finding truth beyond this materialistic world.

These days I met few people who behave like they are practitioners of meditation and they are working to make this world a better place. They do everything with awareness and intuition. I don’t know how much truth is there in their words or behaviour.

I couldn’t find any difference between them and people running and fearing from this materialistic things. Than what is the benefit of such deep meditation? I believe that is what you and I are like. We know world is fake still we run after improving relations, money, health, beauty and brain too. But difference is we are not meditators. Even after long practice of meditation you can’t leave this materialistic world and run after all those things which non meditator wants than I don’t see any point of doing meditation.

I believe truth is to accept materialism with consciousness and awareness. Whatever you do, however deep meditator you are or whichever tapashya you had done you can’t leave this materialistic world. You have to be a part of it. Then why to criticise it? Why to prove that you are not part of it? If there is god outside than he is the supreme power and he knows what he is doing with this materialistic world. And if god is inside you, than this is your own creation, so why not to enjoy it?

The lesson is live with awareness, meditate to get awareness and enjoy this world without criticising. Awareness is to know and believe that world is fake and so feelings are fake too. Then why to create drama? Be part and enjoy. Keep yourself attached with everything but with the awareness of detachment.

You are here to perform, so as other people are too. Let them perform their roles or let them create their world. You trust on yourself, pretending to be aware is not needed. What is needed is practicing. Talking about awareness and explaining other people doesn’t solve the purpose. Practice it and people will know automatically. You don’t have to say anything, everything will be understood. Truth is to go with the flow but with awareness and consciousness of every action taken by you.

Love and Light,

Dimple

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Hi Friends,
Today is New Year evening; actually it is night when I started writing. Wish you all Happy and prosperous New Year.
Today I started reading autobiography of Mahatma Gandhi. I am neither his fan nor follower. Still he has very important place in Indian history so I always wanted to read this book since I was in 7th grade. That dream manifested finally when I am 25. It took long time but I have explanation, as I don’t like policies of Gandhiji so, universe didn’t helped me to get book quickly. Finally my urge of reading this book met to universal frequency just 2 days before.
I mentioned this book because I really like one thing mentioned by Gandhiji. He explained that he was very shy person and before he was very ashamed of it but when he realized importance of silence he also realized that his shy nature saved him from making many mistakes.
I am neither shy nor can be silent at all. I am the person who immediately reacts on unlikely things but unknowingly I am practicing silence since last 20 days and I found that it saved me from certain things.
I have lots of things to talk but still I want to keep silence until I don’t settle down with the feelings. If you don’t know or when you are not sure that what you are feeling is right, till that moment keep silence.
We all know “Think before you speak.” I will say think 10 times before you speak. Practising silence is my new year’s resolution. Because I understood the importance of silence. Nobody in this world cares what you are speaking and what you think. Then why to waste energy???
When nobody cares than whom to explain??? So understand importance of your thoughts in someone’s life specially whom you want tell, than only waste or invest your energy otherwise there is no need of speaking.
Reacting or speaking is not a solution. Sometimes it makes situation worse. To stay out of hell choose silence. Use your words when that makes difference or with the proper understanding of what you are speaking.
Love and Light,
Dimple

Connection!!!!

I am feeling like, I am being addicted to writing. And as a result of it you have to read all stuff. I strongly believe that one should have at least one hobby so he/she can keep their self busy or can divert self in something in critical time. Even for that one need strong desire of moving on.

Thank god that I am feeling myself addicted to writing not to smoking or drinking. Actually I have very good quality of connecting and disconnecting myself with things. (That’s what the compliments I normally get from my dear and near ones). I find things always changing around me. I start loving things, places, people, work, and my hobbies (as I have more than one “always”) and they change. So I started loving change as well.

I tried to hate everything but just can’t do it. God knows why??? But I am still happy, because I had inbuilt (I mean natural) quality of connecting and I constructed (I mean developed) quality of disconnecting as well. Disconnecting is not easy. You can never disconnect yourself from anything. You can just pretend of doing so. Believe me that also takes lot of effort and courage.

You have connection with mother earth and all creatures of this universe before you take birth. Love is connection as well as hate is also one type of connection. Love is positive connection and hate is negative connection. By love you increase or add on in your energy, while hate drains your energy.

Most people have understanding that disconnecting means start hating. I will refer disconnecting as a stage where you neither love nor hate. Because hate is type of connection, which consumes your energy and according to law of attraction shows its effect on you. If you can’t love, then disconnect yourself. That’s what I started doing.

We know law of KARMA and someone has to be medium, so you can meet your karma fruit. As soon as you finish that, those people goes away and next one comes. I always used to curse GOD, that he has always been unfair to me. But whenever I open old pages of my life’s diary, I have found that I am at better position and have better things than what I left behind.

This is the reason I started loving change or may be started understanding change.

Love and light,

Dimple

To all my Hardcore non-vegetarian Friends!!!! (2)

Hi Friends,

This post is sequel of my last post, which was dedicated to all my non vegetarian friends. Last post was really long so wouldn’t able to include all things and so as result of it I have to come up with this post.

Today I would like to talk about religious aspect of being a vegetarian. We Hindu believe in PRAKRUTI (nature or quality). We have divided all the things in 3 prakriti or guna.

1. SATTVA GUN

In Hindu philosophy Sattva Gun is defined as sattva (in Sanskrit “purity", literally "existence, reality"; adjectival ' "pure", anglicized sattvic) is the most of the three gunas in Samkhya, sāttvika "pure"

One of the three qualities of nature that is related to purity of nature. It is purity, reality and truthfulness. Pure consciousness and bliss. a template of balance or equilibrium; it is one of the great gunas among rajas and tamas.

2. RAJAS GUN

Rajas is the force which promotes or upholds the activity of the other aspects of Nature (prakriti) such as one or more of the following: 1) action, 2) Change, mutation; 3) passion, excitement; 4) birth, creation, generation. If a person or thing tends to be extremely active, excitable, or passionate, that person or thing could be said to have a preponderance of rajas. It is contrasted with the quality of tamas which is the quality of inactivity, darkness, and laziness, and with sattva, which is the quality of purity, clarity, calmness and creativity. Rajas is viewed as being more positive than tamas, and less positive than sattva, except, perhaps, for one who has "transcended the gunas" and achieved equanimity in all fields of relative life.

3. TAMAS GUN

The result of a tamas-dominated life is demerit by karma: demotion to a lower life-form. Aramaic life would be marked by laziness, irresponsibility, cheating, maliciousness, insensitivity, criticizing and finding fault, frustration, aimless living, lack of logical thinking or planning, and making excuses. Tamasic activities include overeating, oversleeping and/or the consumption of drugs and alcohol and meat.

This is the most negative guna because of its rejection of Karmic law and the central principle of dharmic religions; that one's Karma must be worked out and not ignored. The gunas are defined and detailed in Samkhya, one of the six schools of classical Indian philosophy.

Each of the three gunas has its own distinctive characteristics and it is believed that everything is made up of these three. Tamas is lowest, heaviest, slowest, and most dull (for example, a stone or a lump of earth). It is devoid of the energy of the rajas and the brightness of sattva.

We have divided all our actions in 3 prakriti or guna. Whatever we do falls in one of 3 prakriti. We believe that food is primary need of human body and what we eat, we behave like that. We have one very famous quote: ANNA(food) TEVU(like) MANN(heart). Prakriti of food decides your prakriti. Tamas prakriti is most dangerous for the spiritual well being of soul.

Hinduism teaches you to upgrade yourself from Tamas to Rajas, from Rajas to Sattva. This is called positive journey of life. Your deeds should be in the manner which leads you to higher level. We also believe that food also falls in one of 3 prakritis. And meat falls under Tamas Prakriti.

We strongly believe that we have to move our lives from Tamas(darkness) to Sattva(purity) in order to create good karma or to get Moksha(equilibrium of karma).

According to Hinduism, getting birth as a Human being is very precious and this is the only Avatar(descent) by which we can try to reach Moksha. Everything leading to Tamas Prakriti is an obstacle to move you towards Sattva Prakriti.

This is the reason why Hinduism favors’ vegetarianism.

IIअसतो मा सद्गमय, तमसो मा ज्योतिर्गमयII

IIमृत्योर् मा अमृतं गमय, ॐ शांति शांति शांतिII

Asato maa sadgamaya, Tamaso maa jyotirgamaya,

Mṛityor maa amṛitan gamaya, Om shaanti shaanti shaanti.

To all my Hardcore non-vegetarian Friends!!!!

Hello All,

I want to dedicate this post to all my non-vegetarian friends. It's their actions that motivated me to give re-action. I would love to give one specific name, which is ANGSHU. He is the one who criticized my last post KEEP MERCY A LIVE constantly and motivated me to expand my boundaries and supportive factors for why one should be vegetarian.

My last post Keep Mercy a Live shows my personal feelings about being vegetarian. There is no meaning of mercy and emotions in this 21st century that I realized very nicely. Everyone has their personal feelings and they cannot expect others to feel same way. This realization made me think over and over about my thoughts and helped me in cleaning dust from my knowledge and abilities.

I am thankful to that debate, which took place at my work between me and my opponents. Obviously they had stronger arguments at that time and it's a result of that debate that I am here with one more post on being vegetarian. But this time I have scientific reasons to support my thoughts and why there is need of keeping mercy a live???

Definition of Neuropeptides, "Neuropeptides are small protein-like molecules used by neurons to communicate with each other. They are neuronal signaling molecules, influence the activity of the brain in specific ways and are thus involved in particular brain functions, like analgesia, reward, food intake, learning and memory."

We also have neuropeptides running through our bodies. (Scientists used to believe neuropeptides were mainly in our brains, but in the past couple of decades researchers such as Dr. Candace Pert have proven that these important little information carriers are found nearly everywhere in our bodies. This gives scientific basis to the concepts of body intelligence and cell memory.) Each neuropeptide has a specific vibration, just like the receptor cells each have a certain vibration. When a neuropeptide meets a receptor cell that vibrates at its same frequency, the two connect; the neuropeptide is allowed into that cell rather than passing it by.

Secretion of Neuropeptides is directly connected with feelings and emotions. it is the result of emotions or feelings or orders passed by our central nervous system and brain. We have around 100 to 200 different types of Neuropeptides connected with different kind of feelings.

We all are aware about mental healing and effect of positive thinking on healing process. This healing process is nothing but the secretion of Neuropeptides which creates positive energy in our body.

Quantum physics tells that, everything in this universe including our bodies are made of energy. We are part of the quantum age. Therefore it is not a huge leap to understand that since we are made up of energy – vibrating cells, over 50 trillion of them – then we can use energy to change ourselves.

Therefore we can say that each and every cell of our body including neuropeptide is energy and energy meets energy when same frequency is set.

Vibrations are the result of our energy, which is generated from secretion of neuropeptides. This vibration has great effect on Universal energy. According to experts and researchers vibrations never dies. Once they are created they keep effecting universe. Vibrations may be positive or negative. When they meets to receiver energy at same frequency, they show their effect.

We know the book "SECRET" Author of this book Rhonda Byrne has written this book after deep research. Connections between energy, vibrations, frequency and it's effects on universe and our self is very well explained in this book. As we receive energy from universe, we also give our energy to universe.

We also know about need and effect of meditation. We know power of positive thinking and Silva mind control methods. If you think deeply, roots of all these techniques are hidden in secretion of neuropeptides. All these techniques helps and motivate you to change your thought process. They train your brain to think positive and create positive energy. This positive energy is result of secretion of neuropeptides.

Mechanism of this can be simply understood by this,

Thought-------> Secretion of neuropeptides------> Creation of energy-------> Vibrations--------> Meets receiver cells at same frequency------> Shows effects on Universe.

It is important to know that, negative energy, vibrations and emotions has stronger and quicker effect than positive ones. It takes lot effort to train your brain for developing positive thought process, while negative thoughts comes without an invitation and at each moment of fear.

Humans are not only creatures on this earth, other than humans are also part of energy. They are not blessed with gift of speech but they certainly have feelings. What about the secretion of nueropeptides and negative energy created at the time of killing them??? Is it going to give your body or mind any positive thing??? Or you are helping in creating negative energy in this world.

From the Biological point, it is proved that when upper layer of cells (skin) is removed and two different cells are joined to-gather than they take each other's texture. . I see all non-vegetarians as self-centered people. So, would like to show them their benefit. When you eat meat, you are not going to check health of animal. If it has any disease, you invite that disorder to yourself.

PHYSICAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN CARNIVORES (MEAT EATERS) AND HERBIVORES (PLANT EATERS).

IS THE HUMAN BODY DESIGNED TO EAT ANIMAL PRODUCTS?

A carnivore's teeth are long, sharp and pointed. These are tools that are useful for the task of piercing into flesh. Omnivore's (meat and plant eaters) teeth are similar to that of carnivores. Men, as well as other herbivore's teeth are not pointed, but flat edged. These are useful tools for biting, crushing and grinding.

A carnivore's jaws move up and down with minimal sideways motion. The jaw motion of an omnivore is similar. These are tools that are useful for the tasks of shearing, ripping and tearing flesh and swallowing it whole. Omnivores swallow their food whole and/or with simple crushing. Man's, as well as other herbivore's jaws cannot shear, but have good side to side and back to front motion. These are tools that are useful for extensive chewing, crushing and grinding of grains and other high fiber foods. Animal flesh cannot be crushed, ground and chewed with the tools Yahweh gave man without some degenerating process such as cooking or frying.

A carnivore or omnivore's saliva does not contain digestive enzymes. Man's, as well as other herbivore's saliva is alkaline, containing carbohydrate digestive enzymes.

A carnivore's stomach secretes powerful digestive enzymes with about 10 times the amount of hydrochloric acid than a human or herbivore. The pH is less than or equal to "1" with food in the stomach, for a carnivore or omnivore. For humans or other herbivores, the pH ranges from 4 to 5 with food in the stomach. Hence, man must prepare his meats with laborious cooking or frying methods. E. Coli bacteria, salmonella, campylobacter, trichina worms [parasites] or other pathogens would not survive in the stomach of a lion.

A predator has a gait, large paws and claws, which enable him to hunt, chase and trap his prey. These are tools meant to kill. Man's gait, as well as other herbivores is designed only for mobility. Examine your hand, fingers and fingernails. Is this an apparatus properly designed for catching, trapping, killing and ripping apart cattle, hogs, chicken and fish? How does this work for picking fruit from trees or harvesting vegetables? The foods your hands were meant to gather are typically, high in water content, high also in fiber to sweep the wastes out of those intestines, and collectively contain every vitamin and mineral necessary to sustain human life.

A carnivore's frame of mind is totally geared for hunting and killing. Man's frame of mind is compassionate, friendly and reveres life. When the lion spots another furry animal, something might instinctively click in his head that tells him to hurry up and get dinner. When man spots a furry animal, rather than show his children how to take its life and eat it, a more likely instinct is to pull over, get the camera out and take a picture. Put a young baby chick and an apple in a crib with a six-month-old baby. What will he instinctively attempt to eat and play with?

Man is not a natural hunter. Every predator, in order to go hunting, MUST be hungry. Man cannot go hunting if he IS hungry! He must have a meal first. Hunger must precede a predator to go hunting. Hunger must follow man's desire to go hunting, it cannot precede it.

And God said, "See, I have given you every herb that yields seed which is on the face of all the earth, and every tree whose fruit yields seed; to you it shall be for food. Also, to every beast of the earth, to every bird of the air, and to everything that creeps on the earth, in which there is life, I have given every green herb for food"; and it was so."

For those, who argue on basis that even plants are living beings, I would love to inform them that even if they are living beings they lack brain and nervous system. Even science is not able to prove that they can feel pain or not. What is their life duration after picking them. This means they don’t have secretion of Neuropeptides and saves world from creating negative energy.

Still you believe that you have right to eat animals and do not understand effect and importance of energy and vibrations for healthy and safe universe. (I would like to refer natural disasters as unhealthy and unsafe universe as effect of universal negative energy).

At last I would like to ask forgiveness if my personal feelings and words have violated your feelings.

Love and Light,

Dimple

Learning...

Hello Friends,

It's been long time since I have posted anything. But truth is I didn't found any topic or incident that I would like to share with you.

25Th July 2010 was GURU PURNIMA and 5Th Sep 2010 would be TEACHERS DAY. Importance and meaning is same just dates are different and people celebrating are different. Today's my post is dedicated to all GURUS(Teachers) whom I met during my journey of life.

By Teachers I don't mean those people who taught you in your School or University. I am referring all those people who travelled with me in my journey and shared their experiences and made me able to gain some experience and knowledge.

I am thankful to all those people who met me by any means and walked with me as reason, season or still walking with me to may be stay for life time.

As we all know that every coin has two sides so how can I forget the other side of the coin? These are people who increased my experience and knowledge by their negative behaviour. If there wouldn't be existence of EVIL than, there wouldn't be the existence of GOOD as well.

Evil things has same importance in life. Just because of them I am able to understand difference between GOOD and BAD. But it does not mean that you stick to your bad experience and stop walking. What you need to do is to show your gratitude towards them because of them now you are more compatible to live in this world and whole hearty forgive them.

Learning is Life and Life is Learning. With every second, hour, day, week, month and year passing we become more competent for living in this world as we constant learn something. We measure our competency in terms of Educational, Financial and Social status. Why we never give thought to our mental progress. When we will start to measure our progress and learning in term of our good deeds and our growth as human beings?

Whenever you feel that your progress has been stopped, than see the other side of coin may be you stopped learning. Without learning there wouldn't be any progress. Do not mistake to measure your progress and learning in only monetary terms. Progress and learning is everything what you have gained over a period of time to make your and others life better.

"Live and Let all Live" is not enough. In this time helping others to live better life is our moral responsibility.

At last I would like to pray "MAY GOD BLESS WE ALL TO SPREAD LOVE AND LIGHT IN THIS WORLD."

Keep Mercy a Live!!!!

What message Jesus gave to this world??? What was told by Mother Teresa or Mohamed Peyangmbar??? What any religion on this world ask you to do before doing anything???

"MERCY" is it???

We always say, "LIVE AND LET ALL LIVE". Does it make sense??? Perhaps you will say, "Of-course!!! I follow it, I never interfere in any ones life. So, why d't you let live those innocent creatures, whom you are killing or they are being killed because you believe that, they are meant to be your food.

Do we have any physical organs which make you believe that you are meant to do Hunting. Do we have extra sharp nails or teeth by which we can do hunting? Can we live in Jungle without shelter and clothes? Would you behave like animals? Than why you eat food like animals?

Animals doesn't have thinking power. Their physical and biological structure proves that they are meant to be eating other animals. It is natural cycle and we can't do anything for that.

What we can do is, we can respect their right of living freely in this world.

If god has made us special, it doesn't mean that we own this earth and everything on this earth is meant to be for us. Although it is for us but only when you can give proper respect to it.

Neither Medical science support that human beings are meant to be eating meat, nor any religion ask you to kill other creatures on this world. Than what does motivate you to be so cruel???

Be vegetarian and respect other's right of living on this world. If we believe that killing any one is sin, than why we treat animals as our food? If you like meat so much than why d't you try eating human dead bodies? Perhaps you will argue that humans have right of funeral than why d't other animals have that right? Is your body their TOMB??? D't you ever feel that pain,which was bared by that animal when it was killed to be your food.

You just need little bit of mercy to be vegetarian. Plant are living beings too. But they are made for you. They don't have voice or blood because you can eat them and keep mercy a live...

Attitude of Gratitude!!!

Here, I would like to refer one chapter form book SECRET. The name of chapter is "Gratitude." That chapter teaches to be thankful for each and everything we get in this life. We always forget what we have and run behind what we don't have.

Think in other way, you love your family a lot and decide to prepare dinner for every one. You cook delicious food and give your best to prepare it. When every one is on dinner table, your partner tells you that he/she does not like this dish and ask you to prepare one of his/her favourite dish for next time. Although he/she admits that food is very nice but it's just he/she d't like particular dish. Would you prepare his/her favourite dish joyfully next time???

How you will feel?? Annoyed??

Think in other way... Your partner is very happy with your work and appreciate you and eat it without telling you that it was one of his/her disliked dish. And ask you to prepare one of his/her favourite dish next time. When you will prepare anything next time you will try to make it better than before, wouldn't you??

This mechanism also works with universe. Uni9verse gives you something and instead of being grateful you complaint for not getting anther thing. What universe will do with you?? It will ask you to wait or arrange by your self and concentrate on some one else who is grateful to it.

Above video is also gives message to show your gratitude towards universe. Thank universe for what you have and ask universe for what you want. Attitude leads your life. Having right attitude is necessary.

Life is full of challenges and it's not only for us. Whole universe works for common goal. For that goal you have your own small part to be performed. Feel happy for your part. Shortest character of drama has it's own necessity. One dialogue has it's own importance.

See the half filled glass, not half empty glass.

Recognizing God....

It's 1 o'clock in the night I just came home after finishing work. Instead of sleeping I am listening a song from movie Jane tu Ya jane na "Kabhi kabhi Aditi..." There is special reason for listening this song at this time. I will come to this point later on, Today I wanted to share some of my special experiences. I don't know what I should say that. It's my trust on god or it's power of my subconscious mind. I am unable to clarify because I believe in both. You can take it either way.

I always believe that, there is god and he listens my prayers, what ever I ask he gives me. And I also believe that subconscious mind has lot of power and it can make your wish come true. Today I want to share some of the incidents of my life, which I am not able to explain my self but it has very important value in my life to cheer me up.

I strongly believe that by this incidents god has given me some message and asked me to take challenges or told me that I am right on my track.

Once I was very upset because of bad behaviour of my very close friends. So I decided to go for shopping with my one friend for shopping but I didn't found it interesting and just sat down on an couch, which was located in corner of shopping mall.

I was sitting very quietly and wasn't even talking. May be I was thinking something and by the time I realized that, one very old lady was coming towards me. I thought she might wanted to sit on couch. So I tried stand up quickly, But she stopped me and told me that, "Don't stand up, I am not going to stay here long. I was just passing through here and I saw you sitting here and thought to have talk with you. I want to tell you that you seems to be feeling very comfortable on this couch as you have always been here." Than she told me, "You don't need to mould your self because of any one else. Whatever you are doing is right and have faith on your self. Next month I am going to celebrate my 90th birthday and still I am very happy. You are still very young you have long way ahead. Keep smiling and always be comfortable as you were here before I came to you. Do not disturb your self because of any one" she gave me smile and left.

When she left I was feeling very positive energy and I came home back. During that time I was watching SAIBABA Serial produced by Ramanand Sagar. In that there was a dialogue by character of Saibaba, "I can not meet each and every person of this world, So I send my messengers to meet them and give my message, but only wise person can recognize them. I give you lots of signs and messages. It is up to you how you interpret them?" And I recalled the incident which happened at Mall.

I didn't knew that old lady before that day and I haven't seen her after that day. There were many more people on her way, Why she took effort to walk few more steps with the help of her stick??? In this foreign country even people do not bother to speak with person sitting beside you than what made her to talk with me??? Why I felt so good after talking with her. It was hardly 3 to 4 minute conversation but why it made difference. May be she was talking in general but why I felt it very related to my current situation. There were 2 or 3 meanings behind her every sentence. You can interpret however you like.

I was feeling very low on that day but I have great faith in God and I was knowing that God is always there with me but I was not sure about my own behaviour. Whatever was going around was my fault or not. I wanted motivation that I was right. As God can not come to each and every person he sent messengers.

May be you all would have experience of such kind but you failed to interpret it. So I wan't you to interpret messages and messengers sent by supreme power. He is always around you but you need to find out him. So it is true that, "God is every where just open doors of your heart."

Now I am coming to the point which I left half way. What was the reason behind listening song "Kabhi kabhi Aditi..." at 1 o'clock in night??? Today again I am confused and having mix feelings like sad, upset, angry and bla bla bla... While I was in train thinking something I received phone call from private number. Nobody spoke from other end but this song was going on back ground. Like that person wanted me to listen this song. When song finished call was disconnected and it didn't came back. I don't know who did this. But I interpreted message which was exactly answer of my mix feelings or motivation for today..

So once again I wan't you to remind that keep your heart open and interpret messages and messengers of Supreme Power and feel the positive energy which he is giving you.

India on Paper...

Recently I have heard that Live in relationship is legally accepted in India. Before that Gay and Lesbian relationship was accepted. And before few years it was legally accepted to write mother's name as middle name of person.

But I am not really sure that our society understands need of these things in real sense or not. Till date it is just on paper, by this our government is just trying to say this world that we are walking with time. But what about general people? Are they able to understand it's need? Will society allow such people to live their life peacefully on their own standards?

It is not enough to approve things legally. It is more important to understand it's necessity in life. It is necessary to accept that time has changed and so we should change our narrow thinking and most important is to change our habit of connecting each and everything with religion.

Each and every religion teaches to live peacefully and give pity. No religion in this world say to abuse people, than why we abuse people on name of religion? Religion asks to live us with ethics. Why d't you see inside your self and ask question that are you living perfectly according to your religion? Just see the other side of coin are you 100% sure that you are understanding your religion perfectly?

If you understand what is religion, than no one will abuse anyone on name of religion, customs and society. Religion teaches to live ethical life, to be honest with your self. If you can not be honest with your self than how you would be honest with your religion?

Marriage is bond between two humans. It is like two bodies and one soul. But how you can find that you are sharing same soul with your partner or with person whom you will marry according to society's norms. If it's true that person should bare his/her life partner even if they does not share feeling of being each other. Than why we are so partial with women. Why there are lot of cases of extra marital affairs? Does religion teaches to cheat your life partner? Instead of cheating our own selves, why d't we understand need of freedom. Why one has to struggle keep every one happy?

I am hopeful for youth of India. I am not supporter of western life style or not advising youth to disconnect their self from society. I wan't people to know true religion. Younger's to respect elders and at the same time elder's should understand feelings of youth. They should be their guide and not abuse them by teaching wrong lessons of religion and culture...

Increadible video...

Hi Every one,

This video is really incredible. You should once watch it. And it would make you feel deep peace inside your self.

This is and Vedic Mantra and we usually use it as prayer.

It is "Asatoma sadgamayam, Tamso ma jyortiy gamayam, Mrutyur ma amritamgamayam."

There is meaning given in video itself and video is worth watching.

Confusion...

Hi every one...

It's 6 in the morning and I have no idea what to do?? So with my confuse state of mind I thought to write something. As this idea came from confusion I thought to write something on confusion itself. Before 5 minutes I was totally confused about what to do?? Either to go for walk or to do some exercise or start painting or music or just simply start on my mission to grab job?? Finally, I reached to conclusion and decided to write.

Normally confusion is very common feeling which whole world shares and feels like yes I feel same in this situation. We have confusion in choosing what to wear today? What to eat? either to choose this or that? May be some people are less confused and some are more. But confusion follows every one.

When confusion is low it does not matter. Have you ever thought that from where this confusion comes? Root of confusion is experience. When you have previous experience or you know about some else's experience, that is the time from when confusion starts following you. Your bad experience ask you not to do certain things, while some one's good experience motivate you to try it again and vice versa.

Each and every person has different circumstances and different thoughts. Never compare your situation with others even if it seems like same. To avoid confusion don't compare two things. Untill you won't try you will never know, was it good decision or disaster? Disasters are part of life. Disaster teach you something. May be they are part of your own "KARMA." Never regret your self that you are at loss because you left right way and started walking on wrong way just because you were confused?

Just follow your heart and do what you want. Don't hurt yourself just because you are confused.

Give try to every new breeze which wants to touch you. D't close your doors before it comes to you. May be tomorrow you d't find it again and regret your self for missing something good. Life is full of disasters but find your happiness between it. And also dare to come out of disasters which you have created in confused state of mind.

Everything is easy to tell... Only following it is the hard part, still I will try to follow what I have written....

one funny incident...

Hi every one,

Today I wanted to share one funny incident, which was funny for us but I d't think it would be funny for the person it happened with.

It was 9.00 pm and I was waiting for bus with my friend. She was going to Junagadh from Baroda. Finally, bus came but I was not going anywhere, I was there to drop my friend. When we joined in queue and just before us one man was standing and he was looking to every one. Also at our group as well, we thought it would not be normal when group of 4 or 5 girls standing and a boy won't look at them. As always I have smiling face, I was getting on in bus with huge smile on my face and that guy was coming out from bus. May be he thought, I was smiling at him. but I passed from him like I didn't noticed him. Than we saw him struggling with his self, may be he was wondering that why we haven't spoke to him.

After a moment one of our friend arrived, " he was smiling and asked us did you see him????"

We asked, "Whom??"

That man!! yaar... That famous guy!!! you girls d't know him???

We said, "Please clear it mate, we have no idea about whom you are talking??"

Than he pointed to the man, whom we ignored and told us that he is guy from laughter challenge and he is travelling on this bus. Than we realise, why he was smiling at us? may be he thought at least we have recognised him. and why he was wondering?

We murmured, that it would be really annoying for him that, no one knows him. And than went to him and took his autograph and some photos with him to make him feel good.

I will not tell his name because it's not that, I d't want to tell his name but it's like I forget his name. I remembered this incident because, today I was watching laughter challenge.

Need of free sky....

Hi Every one....

You know when you try something new, you feel very exited about it and would like to do that thing again and again, and that is the reason why this is my second post on same day.

I was thinking that, I am very liberal, open minded, practical, calm and can accept negative points easily. But with the stream of time I realized that, it wasn't like that. I found my self stubburne, emotional, aggressive and always arguing for proving my thoughts right.

Now you will think, how I found this things??? When I was in India, I had several strong beliefs and I used to believe that my arguments and views are true because whole society follows that so called norms and a person can be wrong but society can not be wrong. I believed what famous magazines, newspapers, writers or our so called leaders told just because their words are aggressive or understandable. They made me feel like, "Yes!!! this are the things what we need." But was that true??? Let's find out with some of my beliefs and related experiences.

My FIRST belief....

I strongly believed that India needs good politicians, good government employees and good police for development. Once India will find good politicians all the problems would be solved, as politicians are the people who runs our country. As once country will go in safe hands and all the problems would be solved. And I started following B.J.P (one of the political party in India) because my dad was follower, my whole family was follower and people whom I mostly know and have influence on me followed it. And the strongest thing that I am Hindu by religion and this party is created to protect rights of Hindus and it was tradition in Gujarat, if you are feeling proud to call your self Hindu than B.J.P is the right choice.

My SECOND belief....

My culture is the best culture in this world, and I am very proud of being Indian and more than that for being Hindu and Indian both to-gather. I belong to oldest culture on this earth and so my culture's traditions are right and what my elders believes and follows I should do same. I strongly believed that, "alcohol is the worst thing in this earth and whole world would be destroyed by it" just because my elders gave me examples of those people whose families were suffering poverty because of man's drinking habit.

And, My THIRD belief....

One shouldn't ever leave his/her own country. Person has to stay with their parents and joint family tradition is the right life style. Women can work but growing up children and giving them right direction is solely mother's responsibility. Men helping her wife in kitchen or in daily work is not a real man, in other words he is "Joru ka Gulam."

I was happily living with my all these beliefs and admiring my self as MODERN THINKER.

I remember may be it was 2002, when my dad came back from his 3rd or 4th trip of UK, he was telling every one that we are walking 100 years back from these developed countries and I was not able to digest that thought. I am the best and all the best things belongs to my country. "Look at the growth rate of our country, it's 7% this year and data says that it is highest growth rate ever seen." But exactly what he wanted to tell was not about growth rate. My mum was crazy about living in UK after her trip. She wanted all of us to settle over there, but no one of us was ready for that all had different reasons. It was difficult for me to find out that, what exactly attract her in UK. She is rich house wife here, has servants to work for her and purse full of credit and debit cards for shopping. What else one should need more than that??? Definitely she won't find any maid in UK and would be tired of working and will not have time for shopping any way. She know all these things, still she was more than happy to live there.

Now it's 2010. I came Melbourne in 2008. I had fight with my parents to come here. In Feb'2008 for the first time I realize the value of abroad due to my personal circumstances. I was dying to leave India. I realized what India is missing. And that was freedom of thinking, freedom of acting, freedom of decision making and freedom of not following society's norms. Because it was the time when I decided to take divorce. Suddenly Princes of family became burden. I was surrounded by sympathy and sorrow. Every single person, who know me was giving me sympathy. I felt my divorce is the talk of town. Still after 2 years when I talk to EXPERIENCED persons of society, I can hear words "Forget it dear what ever happened, it was god's wish and your karma." Why they give me that much sympathy??? Do I really need it??? I am educated, I am confident and I can find work for my self and can be happy. I have all reasons to be happy and why should't I??? But still society will never forget that once I was married, even if I forget. According to them I have to stay sad, because I am divorced.

Now it's turn of alcohol, here in Melbourne people drink alcohol regularly, whole family does not suffer from one person's any habit. Because wife earns for her self and her money belongs to her not to her in laws. Lost of husband means loss of emotions, not a economic loss. Women are practical enough for not fulfilling their husband's unethical demands. and why should they??? Now I understood that it is not alcohol, that destroys family. It is our society so called norms. First wife is dependent on husband and husband is the final authority of family, no one can stop him. If wife is working than her money belongs to husband and there is nothing bad in it. Husband has right to beat wife, as she is his responsibility and authority. And wife tolerates all this things because society will not accept divorced woman. She definitely need one man to protect her and her children from this society's GENTLEMEN. She finds better to tolerate one man than whole society. I d't understand is it alcohol responsible for family's condition or society???

How can my country be great, when it is against of happiness. How I can call my culture great, when it does not consider women as human....

Politicians are not responsible for corruption, people offering bribe are responsible. Sleeping and selfish society norms are responsible. Our orthodox thinking is responsible.... Our habit of accepting authority is responsible... Our rigidity is responsible... Our habit of protesting each and every thing is responsible... We can't celebtare valentine's day just because it encourages youth to fall in love... Can you stop heart to beat??? Than how would you stop love??? Why d't we understand need of freedom??? When we will leave our Hippocratic life style???

We need free sky... Where we can fly fearlessly....

One sunny day of my life!!!!!

Hi every one!!!

Probably you all will think that what I mean by sunny day??? All the days are sunny in India, but here in Melbourne sunny day is day when we feel fresh, when we plan a trip or even decide whether to wash clothes??? That is sunny day for us or for me.

As it is my first post, and first try to write something I thought to write something funny something which I really enjoyed or something I would like to live again and again....

But when I thought about single day of my life which I enjoyed throughout. I wasn't able to recall anything particular. I thought "I missed my life? I didn't enjoyed at all? Am I so bored person? Not a single memory? Not a single whole day? How could it be?"

Than I thought may be I d't have one whole sunny day in my life, as life is full of ups and downs all days are also same. May be you are happy in the morning but evening takes smile away from your face, May be in whole day of sorrow there you smile for while or even on a most happiest day of your life you face few dull moments. Than I thought, that may be I have my sunny day in parts. It was all sunny days when I was in my high school, never studying always fighting, In university bunking classes and watching movie, Than suddenly having boy friend and roaming around with him, Dancing with my all little brothers and family, all the things were making me feel sunny. But with time all goes away.... Now there is no family, no old friends no school days or college days even not old boy friend... so what? Am I not feeling happy now?

Of course not, I am happy. I am at Melbourne surrounded by most beautiful beaches, enjoying my freedom, no burden of responsibilities, no one to ask me why, when and how? Still I am thinking does it makes me happy??? Of course yes, but they are not the only thing which can make you happy. Because if that would be right, do you think people living in interior part of Africa and struggling for food can smile??? Lady forcefully hiding her face under long ghoonghat can smile??? A little child who got polio and can't run like other children would ever laugh??? You will say "No, they can't be happy, they can't laugh or smile in those situation, it's really tough to be happy, how one can be happy???

But that is not true, to make you smile there is just need of willingness to be happy, A smiling face of kid can make you happy, fresh flower on plant can make you smile, a bright sunny day can make you smile, even a person passing by you can make you smile, a most pathetic and bored tv commercial can make you smile. But if you have decided that you will not smile than, you can not smile even at Lass Vegas or even on your wedding or even if you win $5 million lottery....

So, find a reason to smile... your smile can make many more faces smile... Don't find sunny day of your life or don't wait for sunny day of your life.. just make every day a sunny day for your life... and see the difference in your life...